Remember your actions don't only affect you but every one around you. Kids learn from examples and this is one you don't want to be proud of setting. Your sons grow up doing the same thing. Disrespecting his mother and the girls he meet along the way. Your daughters grow up knowing what to expect, a ass beating, as if it's the normal thing between couples and think of it as love. It is so sad how one mistake can cause a life time of heart aches and years to pay. What you should be doing each and every day is building memories of the love that you have for each other. When ever you are apart and you think of her/ him you'll catch yourself smiling because of something that they said or the way they make you feel inside, what Master Card refer to as "Priceless." You're discovering that you don't want to live without the other and this is what love is all about.